There is ‘peace’ in relationship now, woman tells judge in Kildare court case
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
A woman told a Naas District Court judge that there is 'peace' between her and her ex-partner now.
The woman made the comments during an in-camera (in private) court session, which took place on Thursday, October 19 last.
Her ex-partner pleaded guilty to two breaches of a domestic violence safety order, in which he sent threatening messages to her over the phone.
The man's defending solicitor, David Powderly, told the judge that matters had 'settled down greatly' between the two parties.
The court was told that the couple have children together, who reside with the woman, and that both the man and the woman are no longer romantically involved with one another.
When Judge Zaidan asked the woman about her feelings on the situation, she echoed Mr Powderly's sentiments, saying: "Things are good now, yes.
"Everything's peaceful now."
It was heard that there has been no 'repeat behaviour' since the last two incidents.
The court was also told that the man has 52 previous convictions, many of which are for road traffic offences, with the last one being imposed in 2016.
Gardaí also noted that the initial safety order still remains in place.
The woman added: "Once the safety order remains in place, I think everything will be OK."
Mr Powderly also said that his client has apologised to the woman for the messages he sent her.
After consideration, Judge Zaidan said that he would 'reluctantly' give the man a chance, and would apply the Probation Act.
However, he also issued a warning to the man: "If you are back before me for a breach (of the order), and you're convicted over it, I will send you to jail.
"You have her (referring to his ex-partner) to thank (for his verdict)."
The judge also told the man: "And please be a responsible father to your children."
"Yes, judge," the man replied.
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